Custom Snap Effect Against Future Bad Children

It seems to snap the child has become a habit of the elderly when see the wayward child or made a mistake, parents often make irritated. Because of the emotion, it reflected the parents often advised in a tone which is quite high. Such a habit is also usually more often done enough parents hot-blooded man. Advise the child by doing the bentakan certainly isn't very effective, because when the children are very often dibentak, possibly the child will grow up to be a child is covered, even becoming a child minder. The child can also be a very hot-blooded man because it follows the parents habits who likes to snap. To keep in mind the parents is a reflection of parents.
A reprimand, prohibition, correction or a penalty that occurs when an error has occurred that has been done by the child. But unfortunately the parents often performing actions at the time of the error committed by the child. Not by preventing, guiding and directing before the error occurred. Basically a rule created by the first with imparting a deeper understanding on the child by considering all things to the level of development of the child. You should make sure that the children understand what kind of behavior parents expect. So errors can be minimised. When the children have understood the rules and any kind of consequence, expected the son no longer make mistakes. But in fact no such thing. When that point is going to arise a sense of disappointment, anger and upset the parents because his expectations cannot be met. It is often diekpresikan through whose sentences and words, cries, bentakan, and scolding.
For children who are quite often get negative responses compared with a positive response, such as bentakan, shouts or others could make the child underwent several negative effects, such as a lack of self-confidence in children, pemarang, lack of initiative, even the older children who grow up to be rebellious. It really depends on the parents and the child process with a variety of unique personality. Conceivable at the time the children make mistakes, the child always blamed and not at all appreciated, then the child will have thought that all that was done by him would be wrong. So it could just be the son did not dare and would not do anything. A bentakan, scolding and shouts can be categorized on the verbal violence and also emotional. The effect will be very heavy and dangerous if it occurs in many times as well in a very long period of time. If this happens it can cause the child's difficulty in thinking is clear and also fielding.
It's good you don't scream and snap at your child. It's best when you're too emotional, you can leave it for a bit, then explain it well that he did is wrong. Remember going to happen bad impact on your child's future top bentakan or cry that you do. It would be very painful when it should have a child that has a fragile personalities at the time stepped on adults later. Give your child enough attention so that you know what your child needs.