When The Child Began Rebell, How Exactly Instill Discipline?

Discipline and independence need to be inculcated in the son early on especially since the age of three years when children started to develop psychology as an individual. But his name is also the children there must have been a time when he wanted to rebel.

When children of difficult wayward or unruly parents will usually be disciplined child with memarahimembentak or hit. But the way many experts said is not the effective way because even could make a child trauma.

Vera Itabiliana Hadiwidjojo child psychologist says when children are disciplined by way of dibentak or beaten he will not learn very well what his error. Utilizing elements of fear can indeed make children according to these things, however long it will ruin the relationship.

Children with parents later to do even so wealthy offenders with police. If any of you follow the orderly but if baseball is no yes Nah nothing road continues, said Vera at the seminar by Merries in AEON Mall, Jl Main BSD, Java, Wednesday (25112015).

The best way to discipline children according to Vera is by giving the threat of dire consequences if you do not obey. For example if the child does not want to deal with the toys, the mother could tell children that if not dealt with then the toys will be on hold for a while.

If the same child are violated, yes actually run the consequences don't half-measures. If baseball is done correctly later older even so familiar, so choose the consequences which roughly can be run, said Vera.

The son of cranky on the show, her mother say if you still cranky us home nih. Bener ya still fuss back home. It's usually her mother say so but yeah just by doang, pungkasnya.